It can be very painful when a loved one is separated from the faith. However, many of the saints and other holy men and women felt that same pain. The Holy Spirit endowed them with the wisdom to reach out with the truth of the Catholic faith in a respectful, appealing, and effective manner. There are resources available to aid in your evangelization based on the wisdom of these holy people. This wisdom can change negative attitudes toward the Catholic Church or help bring someone out of indifference and into the light of truth.
Pray, pray, pray for the souls of those who are away, and share your faith “with gentleness and reverence” (1 Peter 3:15) with those you know, whether through your personal witness, your invitation to Mass, or through the gift of a great Catholic book or CD. Remember that God wants your loved ones home even more than you do! Remain trusting in His love for them and in the Holy Spirit to guide you to serve them as best you can.
Here are some recommendations for inviting family back home to their Catholic faith.
1) Pray - Ask the Holy Spirit for the opportunity to share the faith, and that their hearts would be open to listening.
2) Engage - "Always be ready to give an explanation to anyone who asks you for a reason for your hope." (1 Peter 3:15).
A sincere personal witness about how your relationship with Jesus makes in impact in your life, and how your Catholic faith fills and sustains you will go a long way. Pope Paul VI reminds us "people more willingly listen to witnesses than to teachers." (EV 41). Your witness can be as simple as saying "going to Mass on Sunday's brings me so much peace," or "my parish is a place where I really feel at home."
Ask them how you can pray for them. People typically have a lot on their hearts; concern for health, for finances, for loved ones etc. Asking them "how can I pray for you" is an invitation that let's them know how much you care.
Share inspirational or pertinent Catholic resources.
3) Invite - Invite them to attend Mass with you, or attend a Church event. Go the extra mile and make sure that they feel welcome and connected.
4) Trust in the Lord - Never lose hope, and never stop praying or finding opportunities to plant seeds of hope, and reminders of how much God loves us. We don't want to "nag" people into the faith, but to joyfully invite them, and prudently share the difference that a relationship with Christ and His Church makes in our lives.
Our TV series has countless stories of people who came home as a result of the loving, patient witness of the their family and friends.